Welcome to MizzLadir3d Blossoming

Hello, my fellow Blossomer’s! welcome to our space where we grow, develop, and upgrade our mindsets and lifestyle. Before I get too far, let me introduce myself, my name is Malissa a/k/a mizzladir3d. I am a mom, entrepreneur, and newly personal development enthusiast. So, I decided to take my passion for writing and growth to create a community where we take back control and build the lives that we’re destined to live, which is not just settling and accepting what other’s want give us. We are valuable and worthy of all that we desire and more. We’re focusing on ourselves here, the goals and dream lifestyle that is closer than we think.

I’m opening myself up to share my goals, wild experiences, and my victories, not forgetting the lessons I have learned along the way. I’m not fully where I want to be but I’m setting myself up with the help of God to achieve above and beyond any and all things I could ever dream of. That is one of God’s promises and I know he will never leave nor forsake my family and me.

I’ll continue opening up about myself and let you in on my life, from the past, present, and future. The good, bad, and ugly. Also, how I started to look at myself as a woman that deserves the best life has to offer! I hope that we could build a community where we support each other and promoted healthy solutions to living better lifestyles in all aspects,

So, let’s get ready to change our lives! Inside & Out! No more accepting what doesn’t belong to us, we’re out here collecting our God given treasures!

P.S. I love the Lord, I do! But sometimes I use colorful words and examples or descriptions. So, please don’t judge me, we’re growing. 😊 If do decide to judge, please judge me knowing that I don’t give no cares because I’m human and so are YOU!!!

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Conversation 7: Discipline is a Friend, Even when it Feels like the Enemy. 😏

Heyyy, my beautiful Blossomers!!! 💋❤️ Before we dive deep into today’s “aha” moment, let me sprinkle some love your way. Be sure to check out my other blog Relationship Advice No One Asked—I mean, you’re already here for the real talk, so you might as well keep the vibe going. You never know what gems you’ll find over there. Here’s the link: https://relationshipadvicenobodyasked.blogspot.com Thank you for always showing up and showing love. Now… let’s get into this truthful and eye-opening conversation! 🌱 Why Are We Playing Small When We Were Born to Bloom? Let’s get all the way real today. No holding back, no more fear! We talk about wanting more out of life—more peace, more money, healthier love, spiritual alignment, soft mornings, clean homes that smell like eucalyptus and ambition—but then boom, here we are, binge-watching our 3rd reality show with a cold slice of pizza talkin’ about “I’ll start Monday.” Sound familiar? 👀 Sis, our comfort zone is snatching our...

Conversation 6: Consistency Ain't Cute, But She Gets the Job Done

Let’s be real for a second, Blossomers! If growth had a face, she wouldn’t be wearing lashes or snatched in a waist trainer—she’d be in a bonnet, with chipped polish, gripping a planner and whispering, “Get up, babe. We got sh*t to do.” Consistency? Yeah, she’s not glamorous. She doesn’t show up in the group chat with screenshots or soft life updates. But she does pull up every day with receipts and results. So today, we’re dragging ourselves (lovingly) up & out the bed and talking about what it actually takes to make real progress: non-negotiable habits and building consistency like your life depends on it—because lowkey, it does.😊 Step One: Stop Waiting on Motivation—She’s Flaky You keep waiting for motivation to hit like a DM from your crush, and she keeps ghosting you. That’s because motivation is the friend who hypes you up on Sunday but disappears by Monday morning when it’s time to do the actual work. You need something stronger: Let’s call “discipline” to the front! ...

Conversation 4: Confidence, Please!!! I’m Not Asking for Permission to Be Great.

* Me being extra: Cue the dramatic music, a sassy strut, and a few hair flips… My Blossomer's!! Let’s go ahead and get this out the way—somebody’s opinion of you isn’t paying your bills, isn’t putting gas in your car, and definitely ain’t laying up in your bed at night (unless your letting ‘em, but hey that’s a different convo, on another day, on my other page). So why do their voices get VIP access to your confidence? Confidence Isn’t a Volume Thing — It’s a Knowing Thing Confidence doesn’t mean you have to be the loudest in the room. It means being unshakably sure of who you are, even when you’re silent. Even when you’re healing. Even when you’re still figuring it out. And self-assurance? (Which we don’t talk about this often.) That’s when you know—deep down—you’ll be good no matter what. Period. “You don’t need permission to be powerful. You just need to remember you already are.” Why We’re Done with Struggle-as-a-Personality We live in a world obsesse...

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