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Conversation 8: Start Now!!!

Hello my Blossomers! 💐 It’s been a minute, but your girl is back , and for today’s conversation, we’re getting into something really simple but deeply powerful: Start where you are. Not where you wish you were. Not when the money’s right. Not when you “feel ready.” Not when the kids grow up, the man gets right, or the perfect storm of motivation strikes. No. Start where you are — right now. I know life be life’ing. I know that stuck feeling is a thing. Honestly? I’ve been there too. Too many times to count! Feeling lost, uninspired, unsure where to begin. You’re not lazy, and you’re not crazy — you’re just overloaded with a million versions of who you “should” be. But here’s the truth: You don’t need more time. You don’t need more money. You don’t need more approval.   You need a decision — a soul decision — that says: “I’m done waiting. I’m building my dream life with what I have, where I am, and with who I’ve become.” We’ve all been handed tools thr...

Conversation 6: Consistency Ain't Cute, But She Gets the Job Done

  Let’s be real for a second, Blossomers! If growth had a face, she wouldn’t be wearing lashes or snatched in a waist trainer—she’d be in a bonnet, with chipped polish, gripping a planner and whispering, “Get up, babe. We got sh*t to do.” Consistency? Yeah, she’s not glamorous. She doesn’t show up in the group chat with screenshots or soft life updates. But she does pull up every day with receipts and results. So today, we’re dragging ourselves (lovingly) up & out the bed and talking about what it actually takes to make real progress: non-negotiable habits and building consistency like your life depends on it—because lowkey, it does.😊 Step One: Stop Waiting on Motivation—She’s Flaky You keep waiting for motivation to hit like a DM from your crush, and she keeps ghosting you. That’s because motivation is the friend who hypes you up on Sunday but disappears by Monday morning when it’s time to do the actual work. You need something stronger: Let’s call “discipline” to the front! ...