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Conversation 4: Confidence, Please!!! I’m Not Asking for Permission to Be Great.



*Me being extra: Cue the dramatic music, a sassy strut, and a few hair flips…

My Blossomer's!! Let’s go ahead and get this out the way—somebody’s opinion of you isn’t paying your bills, isn’t putting gas in your car, and definitely ain’t laying up in your bed at night (unless your letting ‘em, but hey that’s a different convo, on another day, on my other page).

So why do their voices get VIP access to your confidence?

Confidence Isn’t a Volume Thing — It’s a Knowing Thing

Confidence doesn’t mean you have to be the loudest in the room. It means being unshakably sure of who you are, even when you’re silent.

Even when you’re healing. Even when you’re still figuring it out.

And self-assurance? (Which we don’t talk about this often.) That’s when you know—deep down—you’ll be good no matter what. Period.


 “You don’t need permission to be powerful. You just need to remember you already are.”

 

Why We’re Done with Struggle-as-a-Personality

We live in a world obsessed with hustle, pain, and proving something. But what if the real flex is peace?

What if growth didn’t have to hurt so bad?

What if success felt like deep breathes and belly laughs instead of burnout and comparison?

 

Let’s stop delaying joy until we hit some mythical “perfect” point. You deserve a soft life while you’re evolving. Not just after.

 Return to Sender: Other People’s Opinions

Unsubscribe from opinions that didn’t come with love, wisdom, or a check.

Return that projection. Block that backhanded “advice.”

Stop borrowing fear from folks who never bet on themselves in the first place.

Basically, to sum it up:

So, here’s your permission slip to move how you wanna move!

Feel good now! Trust yourself now!

Glow the hell up now—internally first, then externally!

Because honestly? The kind of confidence we’re stepping into…

Yeah, it’s giving opulence with a side of IDGAF!!!

 

Drop a comment below and tell me one fear you’re leaving in the dust—and one bold move you’re claiming for yourself. Let’s hype each other up in these digital streets! šŸ’‹šŸ’–

 

 


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  1. AnonymousMay 25, 2025 at 9:23 PM

    I always believe you showily life your live with no regrets, you only have one life to live

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